avoid or sacrifice. advice given by a cab driver on how to deal with family problems.
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went to chicago. it was fun. went to a desi club, filled with very good looking and wild desis. good music. dancing. preeth got drunk for the first time. srikanth did as well, it was not his first time :). madhavi was super fun, always so happy, such a sweet girl!! i loved meeting her friends too, very nice girls. and to hear her friend neeha speak in telegu was super.
when we went home, gautham, srikanth and i had a very, very, long talk of family, gossip and secrets. i am glad i know more, but i am feeling a bit disillusioned, knowing certain things of my relatives.
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speaking of disillusioned, i think that preetham thinks that desi women would not find him attractive b/c he is shy. i personally prefer shy men over the "roses flow from my mouth-while i try to get you to bed" type of guys. you know what i mean. there have to be some girls out there who like to go out and do things, like movies, and restaurants, desi girls who love rock music as well as indian, girls who have not dated too much but don't want to get married tomorrow either (it seems that girls either have 8 years of dating exp or no dating exp, but want to get married asap). i think that he wants to spend alot of time with a girl, enjoy life while getting to know her, and then talk about marriage. the girl he is dating (who i hate!) wants to get married asap. i wish that he would find a girl that wants what he wants, and is social (this girl he's dating now is a doctor and never wants to go out and do things, in her spare 2 hours of the week) as he is (while he is also shy).
it truly is hard for the family now b/c we hate this girl. we are not being overly protective, but this girl is trouble with a capital T.
preeth, don't you know that there are wonderful girls out there (btw, sonal and suku, i used you two as examples of great desi girls, who happen to be opinionated, smart, sweet, funny and westernized; wish there were girls like you here! minneapolis has desi girls, but the ones i have met prefer the "roses flow from my mouth..." type of guys).
(i pushed preetham to do that online thing, cause i told him that i had two friends (very attractive, very smart,well-to-do) who found their husbands that way...i wonder what you guys think of it btw)
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stories like this make me sad. :( ayesha, the mother of the two children must have been 16 when she married the 28yo man, and her younger brother who is 29 already had a wife and 4 children...omg! THAT and the deaths, and the four children left behind, make me sad!
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btw, good or bad, i have stopped watching, reading and listening to the news for a while.
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went to chicago. it was fun. went to a desi club, filled with very good looking and wild desis. good music. dancing. preeth got drunk for the first time. srikanth did as well, it was not his first time :). madhavi was super fun, always so happy, such a sweet girl!! i loved meeting her friends too, very nice girls. and to hear her friend neeha speak in telegu was super.
when we went home, gautham, srikanth and i had a very, very, long talk of family, gossip and secrets. i am glad i know more, but i am feeling a bit disillusioned, knowing certain things of my relatives.
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speaking of disillusioned, i think that preetham thinks that desi women would not find him attractive b/c he is shy. i personally prefer shy men over the "roses flow from my mouth-while i try to get you to bed" type of guys. you know what i mean. there have to be some girls out there who like to go out and do things, like movies, and restaurants, desi girls who love rock music as well as indian, girls who have not dated too much but don't want to get married tomorrow either (it seems that girls either have 8 years of dating exp or no dating exp, but want to get married asap). i think that he wants to spend alot of time with a girl, enjoy life while getting to know her, and then talk about marriage. the girl he is dating (who i hate!) wants to get married asap. i wish that he would find a girl that wants what he wants, and is social (this girl he's dating now is a doctor and never wants to go out and do things, in her spare 2 hours of the week) as he is (while he is also shy).
it truly is hard for the family now b/c we hate this girl. we are not being overly protective, but this girl is trouble with a capital T.
preeth, don't you know that there are wonderful girls out there (btw, sonal and suku, i used you two as examples of great desi girls, who happen to be opinionated, smart, sweet, funny and westernized; wish there were girls like you here! minneapolis has desi girls, but the ones i have met prefer the "roses flow from my mouth..." type of guys).
(i pushed preetham to do that online thing, cause i told him that i had two friends (very attractive, very smart,well-to-do) who found their husbands that way...i wonder what you guys think of it btw)
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stories like this make me sad. :( ayesha, the mother of the two children must have been 16 when she married the 28yo man, and her younger brother who is 29 already had a wife and 4 children...omg! THAT and the deaths, and the four children left behind, make me sad!
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btw, good or bad, i have stopped watching, reading and listening to the news for a while.
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