choosing names for the babies is not such an easy task...actually agreeing with your partner on the choice of names is the difficult task...if it were up to me i would have chosen them in 2 seconds.
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i am freaking out big time about having a c-section...surgery...and the two weeks needed to heal afterwards. it also seems less 'motherly' somehow...like a mother needs to experience the pushing and screaming and the survival of a hard labor...to prove something...
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i tried to help someone a while back by introducing him to someone who could help him get a job. it was a job in the industry he wanted very much to be in. but the experience was not so great...but it could have resulted in him getting exactly what he wanted...but again, the experience was not very good. so now he is blaming me for putting him in that position. i feel so very bad, all i wanted to do was help him...but instead he is angry with me b/c he thinks that i should have known better than to recommend him to this person.
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